“The dictionary is
the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must
pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you’re willing to pay
the price.” – Vince Lombardi
This is so true! Another true statement is every journey
requires a first step. Sometimes it’s small, simply a toe-dip into cold water.
Other times, people make leaps, throwing caution to the wind and taking several
chances (and get setback from an injury). Either way, that first step is by far
the greatest one. But then there
is a second step, a third step and so on… They are all a challenge!
The problem I
have with picking a goal and sticking to it isn’t taking that first step. It’s the steps long after that first
step. I find it easy to start a new routine, goal and activity. It is week two and beyond when I let
everything I can make up get in the way. Success takes work! There is no magic pill.
The mind makes
choices we direct it to make. To
explain, picture yourself alone in your home, sitting on the couch, watching
your favorite game or TV show after running a marathon, 50 mile or 100 mile
race. You are so sore you have a
hard time moving. Suddenly, you realize you’ve forgotten to grab a your
favorite beverage to go with those chips (I know, bad choice so let change that
to Kale Chips) and are now faced with a dilemma. Seeing as you have nobody in
the house to do your work for you, you can either watch your game while sipping
a delicious beverage that you just got off your ass to get, or you could
continue to sit there wishing you had the energy to get back up from your
comfortable position to get yourself one.
Something tells me,
if you really are serious about drinking your favorite beverage with your game,
you’ll find it within yourself to get up off the couch to pop open a bottle of
icy, happy goodness. So if you can
find it in yourself to get up off the couch to grab a beer, what’s holding you
back from getting out of your comfort zone and making a move towards greatness
and health? When it comes down to
it, both moves need some desire on your part, so in order to be as successful
as you want to be, you have to want it badly enough to get up and go after it.
As stated earlier,
the second biggest problem I have with reaching my goal is continuing past the
first step. Sometimes I dip my toe into the water and immediately retract it,
screaming and flailing our arms (fat shaking), saying it’s too cold and there
was no way in hell I am getting in the water. But usually the initial shock of
the cold only lasts a minute or so before I adjust to the temperature, and
before I know if I’m swimming in a warm, refreshing pool, and soaking up all
the sunshine. But I would never know unless I grit my teeth and get in all the
way.
Long-term health is
a big commitment. But if something is worth having, it’s not going to be that
easy to get. You have to work for it, and I think most people (me included) have
just gotten lazy. A majority of people seems to be born and raised in a lazy
society. People hardly work off of their own sweat and tears anymore. Half of them
practically had life handed to us on a silver platter.
To a professional
athlete, pain and fatigue are just side effects of being the best. And as long
as they continue to fight these things, they will continue to come out on top.
It’s how they got there in the first place, and how they stay there. Nobody
wins the gold by sitting on their ass eating potato chips (or Kale Chips). We
spend too much of our time saying, “I wish I could” instead of,
“I’m going to give it a try”. You want to be thin and healthy? Train for
it. You want to start your own business? Invest. You want to own a
house? Work for it. Not all of us are lucky enough to have our life
handed to us, and even then it seems the people that are aren’t really happy.
They’re missing something and I believe they’re missing the pride
and satisfaction that comes from knowing they worked to their fullest
extent and paid off every debt in life with real blood, sweat, and tears.
Nothing can take that kind of satisfaction away. I know as many friends filed bankruptcy where I stuck it out for 12 years of hell, but I made it, on my own, without pity or outside help. Just hard work! Now I need to approach my health like my finances. Get it down, with hard work and long term effort.
So I reminded myself, I
don’t always have to cannonball into the deep end, but I’ve got to get my feet
wet before I learn how to swim. So
I have had a few weeks of solid workouts.
I am sore, my breathing is very difficult and I really do not feel good
at all. But this is the first step
stage, I need to focus and get through it, then I can complain about these
issues while I am better shape. As
long as no one, including me listens, I will be just fine!